well i am 5'5 white guy with 19 tattoos. i love the ladies, but have had feelings for guys all my life. i am finally at a point where i am comfortable with those feelings and want to meet someone that i can get to know and explore all this stuff with. i have gotten a bit fat over the years but i am going to the gym regularly and working out. i have a very tough schedule, but would love to meet someone who is interested in hanging out and well....you know occasionally...anyway not looking for any random 1 nighters just for someone who is clean that i can get to know and hang out with.